~~ Luke 15:32 (NIV84) ~~ But we had to celebrate and be glad, because this brother of yours was dead and is alive again; he was lost and is found.
by Carley Cooper
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| Gravenhurst, Ontario Photo by Carley |
Remember your senior year of high school? I bet it felt like the longest year of your whole life, as though it was twice as long as other years. Why? Well, it was because you were anxiously waiting to finish high school, to start your life as an adult. Do you remember the day you left home; I am guessing, because you were leaving for college? It was an awesome day. You got to move into your own space, and do your own thing. Mom was not there to tell you that you have to eat broccoli. Even better was that she was not there to tell you that you cannot have sugary cereals, for dinner; or cold, left-over pizza for breakfast. There was no curfew, you could watch whatever you wanted on TV, and party with your friends all weekend long. Venturing out into the world without a chaperone looking over your shoulder; was the ultimate freedom. It probably never occurred to you to feel like you were lost.
Well, for some, you are now on the Flip Side; you are now the parent. You are sending your own kids off to college for the first time, and you are feeling scared half to death to let them go off into the big scary world alone. “My baby is growing up way too fast.”, “How am I going to protect him when he is in another city?”, “What if he gets sick? Who is going to take care of him?”, “How am I going to save him from dating the wrong type of person, or from getting involved with a bad crowd?”, “How do I protect him from peer pressures of drugs, sex and booze?”. The list of things to worry about is never ending. Every fibre of your being wants to hold that child, protect him; never let him experience any hurt, disappointment, or hatred. If you had your way he would never even experience a cut finger. Above all else, you certainly do not want your sweet baby doing the things you did in college! You want only love, laughter and joy in your child’s life; for his whole life.
As a parent, you are most certainly not alone in those things you are feeling. Every parent who has ever had to let go of a child has felt these things and much more. Now, for just a minute; imagine what it would feel like if your baby went off into the big world and then stopped all contact with you. What would that feel like for you? There are no emails, no letters, no text messages, no phone calls, and no visits home for the weekends or holidays. Even worse than that, all your calls and messages go unanswered. You have given this child everything that he has ever needed, guided him, moulded him, and loved him with your whole soul more than life itself. It would be excruciating to have him willingly walk out of your life without an explanation.
The feeling that you would be completely lost without your child is something that Jesus understood very well. In Luke 15, Jesus tells us parables of the ‘Lost Sheep’, ‘Lost Coin’, and the ‘Lost Son’. When the lost is found, in each parable, the Master has a celebration. Nothing else matters, except that the Master is reunited with the lost. When we venture out into the world alone, without God, and determined to live our life according to our own agenda, we get separated from Him. We are lost. More than that, God’s heart is missing us and longing for us. He wants us with Him. We may not even be aware that we are lost because we are too busy enjoying the scenery on the journey we have laid out for ourselves... or worse, we are just coasting along without a plan, not knowing or caring where we are headed. The problem here is that we end up, either, on a dead end track; or one that is leading straight to the edge of a cliff. God is trying to get your attention to let you know that only He can move us onto the right track. He wants to protect us from getting lost, falling over the edge, or ending up in the middle of no-where.
God has the most amazing blessings waiting for you if only you would call home. He is as much a member of your family as your spouse, kids, parents, grandparents, aunts, uncles, cousins, and even pets. With every decision you make, every trip you plan, every holiday you celebrate; Jesus should be included in the plans. For example, I wake up every morning, no matter what the weather, look out my window and say “Good Morning, Lord. Thank You for the wonderful day; and thank You for the wonderful apartment in this wonderful city.” He is a member of my home and I like to greet Him as I would anyone else when I get up in the morning. I have also learned to make decisions according to what He would like me to do. I pray to Him and wait for an answer. Sometimes I do not get the answer I would prefer, but I have learned not argue with Him anymore as I used to do. It is a little bit like chasing your own tail... completely pointless. A friend once offered me the most incredible gift; of a trip of a lifetime to travel Europe. I turned it down, because the specific circumstances surrounding this gift would have placed me in a position that would likely cause me to stray away from God. I am not willing to take that risk. I do not ever want to live without God in my life, again.
Do you make God a member of your family? Do you include Him in decisions you make? Do you talk to Him every day? If not, He is calling you. He is your Father, and He loves you. He misses you, just as you would miss your kids or anyone else in your family that would suddenly drop from the scene. So, before you go about your life without including God; put yourself on the Flip Side and imagine how He is feeling having to live without you. He is waiting to celebrate your home coming.
~~ Dear God ~~ The plans that You have laid out for my life are perfect. They include dreams and blessings beyond anything my imagination can come up with. Please always keep me close to You, and do not ever let me wander off into the world alone to follow my own track. I love You and I do not ever want to live my life without You. Just like the lost Son, in Jesus’ parable, I want to come home to live my life with You, and I am looking forward to the celebration that You have planned. In Jesus name, AMEN.
